If you find yourself on the market in your 40s, you know how daunting it can feel. Long gone are the days of countless single friends, countless single bars, and endless time on your hands. And besides, you may feel a bit rusty—even nervous! Just follow these key pieces of dating advice for men over Let me get you up to speed. She will be Googling.
Hitting the dating scene in your fifth decade can feel so… complicated. After all, there are likely to be children in the picture, and behind every potential partner is a sheer lifetime of romantic experience and a much, much longer trail of exes. Be realistic. Especially since they might be different from when you were in your 20s and 30s. Same goes for money, religion, and lifestyle. I always encourage clients to make sure they have healed from the wounds of previous relationships prior to pursuing another one.