In the dating world, there's a certain grading system with which you're undoubtedly all too familiar. Akin to a beauty contest scorecard, a person's attractiveness is ranked from one to And generally, it's presumed that the beautiful Amazons among us the eights, nines, and 10s should only date each other -- while the "uglies" of the bunch the twos, threes, and fours must stick to their own Quasimodo kind. But, every now and then, a couple pulls the switch off this genetic equilibrium. Now, I'm certainly not going to put myself into the same camp with the Julia Roberts and Padmas of the world I've welcomed men into my bed who were short, fat, or balding sometimes all three , while I, thankfully, am none of those things.
Would you date an ugly man?
Dating Ugly Men - Nymag
The reason why an ugly guy can have a hot girlfriend is that women can feel attracted to men for reasons other than looks. Some women will only ever accept a perfect looking male model with loads of money and huge penis, but the majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that she is open to being with all different types of guys, as long as the guy can make her feel enough attraction in other ways. Some of the many ways that you can attract women are with your confidence, charisma, charm, humor and masculine vibe. Attraction noun : A quality or feature of someone that evokes interest, liking or desire.
Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men (And Probably Even Prefer Them)
It's a pretty well known fact that most women - attractive women - will happily date ugly men. We see it on TV -- in shows like King of Queens , though I would probably argue that Kevin James is kind of a stud, and really, that's exactly the point I plan on making-- and we see it in our friends. There are plenty of studies on this strangely anti-Darwinian phenomenon - studies which I think don't answer the question as well as I, with my oh-so-steadfast opinions, can, do, and will. So let's talk about this.
I was at Void with friends, and as soon as he was introduced to me I felt woozy because I was such a fan of his oeuvre. On the contrary—I decided that his low hotness was a great counterpoint to his high Q rating. If he was that weird-looking, he would never leave me. So I hit on him. I must have done something right because a few hours later we found ourselves horizontal on his futon.